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on April 29, 2010 at 1:44 amlulu
Well, this is an ancient thread. As I’ve read through the website (I’m pretty familiar with Game) I keep wanting to ask the same question–
Tupac Chopra writes (years ago)
“Let’s get something straight. When women cheat, they do it for reasons that fall into one of two broad categories:
1. Her husband is a high-status alpha male. In this case, she will love fucking his brains out, but will emotionally wilt because of her inability to completely capture his heart, i.e., betaize him. He won’t be giving her the emotional closeness she desires as an indicator of her power over him. In this scenario, a woman will cheat on him with a nice-guy beta type to get her emotional fix.”
Well I find myself here. Consistently attracted to alpha men, and consistently, gently, pervasively starved of affection and validation from them. This certainly fuels my attraction. However, the privation makes the admiration of beta males irresistible to me. I often cheat, feel guilty, leave the alpha, and start again. The cycle exhausts me, and is unpleasant for new and old lovers. Is it possible to find a man who satisfies you (in terms of challenging you, exciting you, denying you) and still doesn’t leave you always working and waiting to be madly loved?